Are you willing to look at what is not making you happy?
What’s your definition of happiness? Do you wake up starting your day in a positive way? Are you a generally happy person, or do you have to work on being happy?
Are you your own navigator, or is life taking you in many different directions? I often feel like life is my teacher. How about you? How do we become our own personal engineer and be in control of our feelings?
We often have something that we are working on that we are passionate about, but does that necessarily bring us happiness? Maybe pleasure, but not happiness. I think it’s all about our expectations. If we expect ugliness or if we expect beauty, that’s usually what we will receive.
If you’re not happy you’re probably out of alignment. I have found to learn how to live with acceptance of what I have control over and the rest I try to leave out.
What part of your life is happy and what part of your life is not behaving like it should? Can we get to a place in our life where we accept ourselves and someone else’s differences? I guess what it comes down to is we all have to ask ourselves some questions. Do I want this moment to be my friend or my enemy? Are you willing to look at what is not making you happy, if it could open a whole new world?
Start today with the following wishes:
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expect of me.
2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.
P.S. Happy Father’s Day to all the great men in my life!
– Kim Pagano
Host of the Kim Pagano Show
Hair Therapist
kim@kimpaganoshow.com
(805) 419-0008
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